I need advice from unmarried, single moms! My ex wants to be called daddy and have all the rights a…

Fought to keep my son's "father" out of his life. If they aren't willing to actually provide for their child, and do nothing, they don't deserve to be a part of it. Them doing that nonsense, they have taken themselves out of the equation of being in that child's life.

I would tell him when you start supporting him and being an actual dad to him then he can

Kick hin to the curb. Plenty of other men who wanna act like it in this world out there.

@juliaschade41, I actually did that yesterday. I don't know what he'll try to do when the baby's born though.

@mommyandstepmommy, I see how much of a deadbeat he is toward his 3-year-old and I feel like he'll do that to my baby too. I don't regret my baby, but I regret him. I wish I would've seen who he was from the beginning.

@rebelsmommy, he doesn't want to be taken out of the child's life. He also doesn't want to do anything to be helpful or not stress me out.

@swdemopulos1 well if you take the extra steps you need too, he can't do anything. Like don't put his last name on the certificate, make sure he's not allowed in the room, and if you have too, have a restraining order against him. You're the mom and you're in control of it all.

I personally just wouldn't involve him. If he doesn't want to do anything helpful, I just don't see the point in trying with him.

@swdemopulos1 I pm you