
So I'm having a proud yet sad moment right now. My almost 18 month old son has gone to bed for the first time without nursing beforehand. I am proud of him but it almost seemed like he didn't even notice that we weren't nursing. I decided to do something a little different tonight because I'm starting to try to wean him. I would love to let him self wean but I'm pregnant with my second and I don't think he would stop on his own. Normally his bedtime routine is PJs, nursing until tired, then he crawls into bed and gives me a hug and kiss, then he goes to sleep. Instead tonight we watched part of a movie in place of nursing. Sorry about the long post. I just felt like sharing. Here is a silly picture of him :)
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Weaning
We are finally on the path to being weaned! He was down to only nursing for nap time and at night but yesterday he did so well not nursing at nap time that we went ahead and dropped the night nursing as well! If definitely took forever to get him to fall asleep but thankfully I'm a sahm and Athena isn't due until April. Hopefully we find better ways to fall asleep quickly before then. I think the whole process would be easier if my husband would put him to sleep but sadly he works long...
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer.
My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk out...
so idk what to do im supposed to be moving out with my bf, baby daddy he is 14 yrs older then me and he has his niece that is 25 that lives with him and she has a daughter that's almost 6 but on day she was being stupid and told me that I might have her daughters dad closer then me then i though since then we have had lots of fights about it and he always says it's not his daughter but why would she say that and why would he have gotten so mad when i questioned him about it and every time he pos...






I think they’re in order. Am I being unfair? We originally agreed when he got his job back in nov 2019 he would send $150 a week to help with childcare. I feel like that’s way less than what child support would be. But he has only sent $50 3x total. I kicked him out almost a year ago because his drinking was a problem he would beat me. Instead of getting sober here he moved to Texas with his parents. He blames me for not seeing his kids but he chose to move.