Before i got pregnant with my husband' baby he told me that he wasnt ready for a baby, said it will…

That's scary! Did you guys purposely get pregnant..?

We didnt use protection nor withdrawl

He is a muslim man

He said they must not waste there seeds

a lot of men feel that way in the beginning. my baby daddy didnt want to have a kid either because he felt not ready, but once they embrace reality, a lot of men do come around. if you feel in danger with the baby, leave until he gets his head wrapped around it.

@chunkymonkies24 ok

Wow if you feel like he might you should go somewhere family or friends I know Muslim men do believe very strongly in there point of view does he know your pregnant

Yes

@mamita197798, that's not a Muslim man thing that's a personality thing

Is he acting mean towards you now,that u are pregnant?

@shaeslove I know a few Muslims wives not saying all but some try to be very controlling

But either way just be safe you should never feel scared with your mate

@mamita197798, a true Muslim/man practice peace and not harm. Allah will protect you ❤️❤️ peace and blessings

@msjt07, then they aren't practicing correctly because the woman actually has more control and more of a say. As long as they are both respectful in the marriage then it should work out. Also I put my foot down with my husband. I don't play that.

@shaeslove yes that is true. I must understand that Islam is perfect but we are not

@mamita197798, yes ma'am! I've been practicing for a year and I'm in love with the religion but it's because I do follow my husband, but I'm no fool. In the Quran it say that women are 3x's more important

@msjt07 he threatened me last month

@mamita197798, and my husband and I use protection. Shoot I even have an iud. We would go on and off using condoms with my iud and it didn't help! If he didn't want to use protection then he should expect to have a child

I'd leave. I'd do what's best for my child, no matter how in love I was.