I need advice!! So I'm sending out Karoline's invites to her party, and my mom is pushing me to…
I need advice!! So I'm sending out Karoline's invites to her party, and my mom is pushing me to invite my aunt even though I've basically disowned her as my family. She ALWAYS starts drama right before or ON my moms birthday. This year she ruined my moms birthday the day before calling her talking shit about me and it dragged out for months. She bad mouths myself, my mom, and my dad. So I don't want karoline around that negativity at all. Is it wrong for me to not include her? I really don't want to. I have a hard time establishing boundaries. I'm traumatized from the abuse I went through so any time someone verbally abuses me I try to stand my ground. Should I still allow her to come even though she verbally abuses myself and my mom and starts drama?
A J·
Nope. I'd want a stress free celebration! Don't feel bad.
👑Ore👑·
Nope!
Eryka·
No way! family like that doesn't change
Karolina·
No I say don't invite her. But I'm a straight forward person. I would tell her I don't want drama at my party. 🤷🏻♀️
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No. Your baby, your party, your peace, your time. Protect that
Heathar Johnson·
I will be your daughter 1 and only first birthday. Do what make you most comfortable.
Robyn ·
Мама троих детей
Boundaries are hard, harder with family. You have every right to feel the way you do. Why ruin a special day. Maybe think of a nicer way to tell her she can't come.
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Thanks mamas! That's the affirmation I needed. I didn't want to invite her. I told my mom and she started crying. Hopefully this doesn't put strain on our relationship even more 🤞🏻 but I'm standing my ground and not inviting her