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Ashley LaShure
alashure001
Ashley LaShure·Мама троих детей

Anyone else have problems having sex after having their kids? My first I didn't but my most recent I do and she's almost 9 months!

28.08.2017
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logansjay
Jay·Мама сына (8 лет)

@alashure001, geez that's a long time but it'll be worth it hopefully

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alashure001
Ashley LaShure·Мама троих детей

@logansjay, I've looked it up. You gotta see a pelvic therapist! I found one near me but I can't get in for 3 months!

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logansjay
Jay·Мама сына (8 лет)

@alashure001, when you do get a patent

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logansjay
Jay·Мама сына (8 лет)

@alashure001, nope it's not in your head lmao there's a fucking wall there. Or extra skin or something. Whatever you want to call it. It bothers me so much I want to see a specialist but I'm not sure who I would see.

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alashure001
Ashley LaShure·Мама троих детей

Ugh ladies there's gotta be a way for us out of this and I'm gonna figure how to make us all better!

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alashure001
Ashley LaShure·Мама троих детей

@logansjay, same here! It's literally like there's a wall there. I told my doctor and he said it's all in my head 😂😂 um no!

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alashure001
Ashley LaShure·Мама троих детей

@mommagi, yes! That's exactly why I just give in and try to do it once a week lol

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logansjay
Jay·Мама сына (8 лет)

I literally just had this convo with my so. It's like all my insides didn't return to their originally place and it's all weird now. Like nothing is aligned anymore like yeah um that wall didn't use to be there please stop hitting it it feels wrong. It's been 10mos since I've given birth and we rarely have sex. Not to mention I feel things got wrecked and I'm not tight anymore and keagels don't work anymore

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mommagi
Geovonna·Мама сына (8 лет)

Yupp , literally have only done it5 times since I gave birth & that's only because he complains from time to time so I just do it

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mamalambs
Amanda·Мама дочки (9 лет)

@alashure001, yes! That's spot on. Thank you!!

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alashure001
Ashley LaShure·Мама троих детей

@meetthevalentines2017, OMG same here girl! My boyfriend is very supportive BUT always talk about how our sex life has changed and it sucks and he hopes I get better soon and it just makes it worse! Hahaha "not my fault you put 2 kids in my bro"😂😂😂

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alashure001
Ashley LaShure·Мама троих детей

@mamalambs, exactky! I only do it to please him lol but it's just not fun and puts a damper on our relationship but yes I'll definitely let you know!

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mamalambs
Amanda·Мама дочки (9 лет)

@alashure001, that's a good idea! I need to do that too. Girl same it's like I don't want sex because then the rest of the night I'm in pain. That's not fun. Let us know if you find a solution!

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meetthevalentines2017
Stephanie Valentine·Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет)

@alashure001 same and my husband gets upset that I don't want to but doesn't understand how uncomfortable it is for me. Before I got pregnant the first time we literally had sex everyyyday and now he s mad "I've changed" not my fault you put 2 babies in me bro.

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alashure001
Ashley LaShure·Мама троих детей

Ugh yea I've read so much and am thinking of going to a pelvic therapist to see if that helps. I dread having sex because of it and it sucks

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mamalambs
Amanda·Мама дочки (9 лет)

Yes! I am 22 months PP and sex is still so painful for me 🙁 we have to take it super slow and even then it hurts so bad! Idk whyyy

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meetthevalentines2017
Stephanie Valentine·Мама двоих (7 лет, 9 лет)

It just hurts. Like the walls of my vagina just can't take it anymore and I didn't even deliver vaginally

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