RANTING: ****Ever since my husband and I have been on our own we haven't been invited to any family…
RANTING: ****Ever since my husband and I have been on our own we haven't been invited to any family events on his side. Yesterday, I commented on a FB post of our nieces birthday party and said "Happy 12th birthday to my niece Nina, I wish I could've been there to celebrate with her. So sad that now Michael and I are on our own (just 2 towns away) we are no longer invited to family events. The majority of this family has not yet even met our daughter. I am grateful for the few who care enough to stay in contact with us, they know who they are. The rest, you reap what you sow and the unanswered calls, text messages, and no invites have been received as a message. We will no longer make any attempt to be involved with you." Now all of his cousins are coming at me crazy saying I sound like a needy bitch, I shouldn't need an invite to show up (so I guess I'm just supposed to know there's a party happening) talking about how I probably cheat on my husband when he's away and that our daughter doesn't know her father because he's absent and I shouldn't have brought a child into this world if we couldn't be together. Mind you I've never cheated on my husband and it's irrelevant to this, he is not absent from her life hes a stay at home dad for godssake and we live together so how are we not together as a family? Because occasionally he has to go to training for one of his jobs? Give me a break. I feel so hurt right now 😔 I didn't say anything disrespectful and I didn't call anyone out. Now 3 of his cousins are ganging up on me on FB and texting me. My husband has already told them to stop, but they keep going. I've blocked them off of both but then I hear from someone else.
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I would ignore it if I were you. U wrote what needed to be said and now block everyone that messages u on Facebook and cell and move forward w ur life. Try not to think about it or stress about I
Aashley ·
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It's his family you let him deal with them you shouldn't have gotten involved.
Emily Mallegni·
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@miniwolfe I haven't responded at all past the one comment I made. @gabsmommy That is my family as well... we are married.
Aashley ·
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So what .... obviously they don't look at you as family. They disrespected and half of them don't care to see your kid. If you would have left it up to your husband to deal with his family maybe you wouldn't be getting all these blows on FB. And sometimes us woman need to just sit back and let our man handle some situations. I'm a Wife so I know. My husband family can get disrespectful but I let my husband deal with them and it always works out.
Emily Mallegni·
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@gabsmommy I don't send my husband to fight all my battles. My husband and I stand side by side through everything. I am my own woman and I won't hide behind my husband.
Aashley ·
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@emily526, it's not hiding sweetheart I see your missing the point but all I'm saying try to do things differently and you'll get a better outcome. Maybe you wouldn't have 3 of HIS cousins ganging up on you. God forbid if the two of you divorce your no longer family the next woman will be & he will always be family and his family will always be for him.
Emily Mallegni·
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@gabsmommy We're both just ignoring it. His 3 cousins are going back and forth with themselves lol. If people can't make time for us then we will not make time for them. I understand what you're saying that it's his family, etc. But these people crave drama so much they will go on forever. Neither of us have responded to any comments and they are on about how they're all going to punch us both and that's just childish comments we don't want to entertain. I see it as I said what I needed to say and I think I said it without being disrespectful. So they look stupid for going on and on. I put this up on here because I am upset about the comments they're making about us, but I didnt want to add fuel to the fire.