It legit makes me so sad but I need to buy a leash for my toddler. She is out of control in public and as a single mom I can barely get anything done when I'm chasing her around. She refuses to sit in a cart and hates her stroller. This is the best option I have. I just feel like I'm going to be shamed for using one. I know I shouldn't care what people think especially since it's my daughters life I'm looking out for.. please tell me I'm not the only one who uses one?