Anybody else has a mom that gets on ur nerves so bad... I do... she went to see my bro In jail and…

Anybody else has a mom that gets on ur nerves so bad... I do... she went to see my bro In jail and told him my husband hates him cause he stoled checks from my mom and wrote hot checks with them... my husband don't hate him just disappointed... then had the nerve to ask me to take Landon to a jail to see him... I want even go up there y the he'll would I take my son!!! Every time she texts me it's bs... and drama I have enough to deal with on my own... being a mom to a newborn while my husband out of town working 28 days taking care of a hundred chickens and 3 cats 2 dogs... and 4 bedroom house.... I have to do it all on my own when he's gone!! What should I do about what she pulls??? Then she told me while I was prego and emotional the truth about my dad that she lied to us about my whole life!!!! Now she will call and ask him to do stuff for him when all she did was talk him down before and after he moved in here with me!!! I'm so sick of it all I cried earlier... she plays these two faced games... I don't wanna completely shut her out cause my luck something would happen to her!!! I'm ready to though