Sorry I need to rant. But seriously baby momma drama sucks!! I hate that my boyfriends ex is such an…
Sorry I need to rant.
But seriously baby momma drama sucks!! I hate that my boyfriends ex is such an immature person. She wouldn't let my MIL have her for the day because I was coming along and she didn't "ask for permission" but she says she likes me & had previously talked of wanting to see me pregnant and have her daughter see my belly & be told that she's gonna be a big sister.
They moved to another state not long after the baby was born 3yrs ago so she doesn't come that often out here. & in the 2 years me & my bf have been together I've only seen the little girl twice but never got to hang out with her so she can get to know me & now that I'm having a baby, I was excited to spend time with her and have her see my belly and tell her how she's gonna have a baby sister. She was so excited to spend the day with grandma but bc of the BM, she didn't. In the end she's just hurting her daughter. And that's not fair, I hate it when BM's are like that.
I hope this never happens but, If I were to ever break up with my bf and he moved along I would not be like that. As hard as it'd be, I would just have to accept that he found someone else and I wouldn't stop him from seeing our child or our child being around someone else. Which yea it'd kill me but if it happened oh well I can't do nothing. Especially cancelling plans on the grandma who doesn't get to see her often but loves her granddaughter so much.
Missy·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (20 нед.)
Totally know what you mean...I could go on and on for days about all the stuff my husbands bm has pulled
Karine Castrejon·
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@taylorsmommy10817, wow I'm so sorry. 😫 my bf tried being there for his daughter he even stayed with his bm for a bit after she was born but he couldn't it was just not a healthy relationship and too much arguing. She put him on child support and took custody away from him and ever since she always says he has never tried being there for his daughter and never tried contacting her but it's not true he has tried and she always made it so hard for him to see her when she visited and just made everything so difficult. And she once said she didn't want him to be apart of her life so he's respecting her wishes as much as it hurts him just to avoid problems. But she says she likes me and she's happy the little girl is gonna have a baby sister but yet I don't get why she had to make a huge deal today. I hate it when bms do that you just disappointed your child cause she thought she was gonna go have a fun day but then tell her no last minute all bc of that
Karine Castrejon·
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@emmysgirl529, I just stay out of it I don't say anything but I feel horrible for my boyfriend and his mom
M. P. ·
@karinecastrejon i have 2 other bms to deal with. One who i do get along with the other not so much. We KNOW we don't like each other though but if there's an event going on and me and my son are going she won't come and bring her son because me and my son are there. She does the same thing to him too some times and tell her son he can go and then says no and he's very attached to his dad so is my son. She's never had her sons best interest at heart though. With the situation that went on the beginning of the year i admit I wasn't nice at all but she pushes my son my very young son who is only 8 months old and still bonding with his father, away from his dad. I've never met her in person and if and when that day comes we will have a civil mutual relationship hi how are you and thats it. Now i only try and involve my step son in things the best i can and leave it at that.
Karine Castrejon·
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@noahs.mommy, omg that's awful of her hella petty and immature! In the end she's not thinking about her son and what's best for him. I don't get why some bm's gotta be like that. Just srsly grow up and think about your kid not yourself. I talked a little with my boyfriends bm but nothing really not even a conversation but she says she likes me and thinks I'm good for him and all but yet this past Saturday she didn't let my MIL have the little girl bc she wasn't told ahead of time that I was gonna be there.. ok???
M. P. ·
@karinecastrejon smh thats stupid. Who cares fr 🙄