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Melinda Parker
Melinda Parker
Мама четверых детей

So. My downstairs neighbor owes me 60 for baby sitting, and 80 for money we let them burrow. Well her husband quit his…

So. My downstairs neighbor owes me 60 for baby sitting, and 80 for money we let them burrow. Well her husband quit his job to many times and went back, that the man fired him. He was gonna look for another job, but she told him NO. Well she works for 10 something an hour, and makes about maybe 600 or more on payday. Idk. I know what she tells me. Well they are actually a month behind on 50 of that 60, because I babysat whilst they both worked. Well she got paid yesterday, and she told me today with one working she isn't going to have the money. Ok well this last time on wed I watched her two kids, so her husband could fix a friends car. I feel like I'm being selfish, but I feel like she shouldn't of made the commitment if she can't keep her end. Also within t his past month. Her husband has went to numerous carshows, ate out every other night, got new wheels for her husbands car (and I mean the different style rims and tires), and drives out of there way to people house they say "they don't have the money for." Well we have asked them to watch our kids for like two or three hours, because they owe us. They never do. Well I'm starting a 72 hours payday week job at 9$ an hour, and babysitting three kids that go to school with mine. Because their mom pays. Is it mean of me to not want to watch my neighbors 2 kids anymore, especially since I'll be working 3rds. No offense, but asking me to watch kids so you can fix a car makes no sense to me. I mean this was suppose to be been the second job between us, and she knows that.

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armyvet_working_mom_of_4

Melinda Parker

Мама четверых детей

@bearsmomma, I'm deff not baby sitting anymore. @lionesssmommyy, and she has. I'm too nice.

lionesssmommyy

nancy tejeda

В ожидании первенца

Sometimes you just have to say no. I'm sure she sees the great heart you have but people will take advantage of that with no hesitation.

angelamomof3

Loving My 3Boys

Мама троих детей

@armyvet_working_mom_of_4 I would said I understand but I have kids I have to provide 4

armyvet_working_mom_of_4

Melinda Parker

Мама четверых детей

@babyquante17, she gave me the one parent working sob story.

angelamomof3

Loving My 3Boys

Мама троих детей

@armyvet_working_mom_of_4 I remember watching this women kids and when it came time pay me she didn't pay me all of and I made sure she did. I can't stand wen ppl say something and don't do it

angelamomof3

Loving My 3Boys

Мама троих детей

U right about that@proudmommyoftwo_ @armyvet_working_mom_of_4 she can't pay don't watch kids.

armyvet_working_mom_of_4

Melinda Parker

Мама четверых детей

@proudmommyoftwo_, I have actually made up my mind to leave it alone. I'm starting a 3rd shift job soon, so I don't need it.

proudmommyofthree_

- Caleen 🇯🇲

Мама двоих (младенец)

@armyvet_working_mom_of_4 Girl i would leave her alone and cut her off that's some bs right there

armyvet_working_mom_of_4

Melinda Parker

Мама четверых детей

@proudmommyoftwo_, that's what my husband and I was just texting to one another.

proudmommyofthree_

- Caleen 🇯🇲

Мама двоих (младенец)

Seems to me like she was really taking advantage of you.

I’m really trying my hardest to help one of my friends but it’s so hard she doesn’t listen to my advice. She’s a stay at…

I’m really trying my hardest to help one of my friends but it’s so hard she doesn’t listen to my advice. She’s a stay at home mom and she has 3 kids under age 5. Her husband works full time 10-12 hour shifts 6 days a week and they depend solely on his income. She’s always telling me how bad they struggle and complaining about not having money and I send her part-time jobs she could get but she says childcare is the issue. I even found a daycare that would let her bring her two younger kids that she could work at and she said she could find a sitter for her older son who is 5. Does she listen? No I literally give her money every week and no I’m not obligated but I just feel like I have to help what can I do to tell her she needs to start working because it’s literally ridiculous I’m realizing I give her like $100 a week which isn’t a lot but once I add it up that’s $400 I could be using for myself or in my own savings