I'm sorry that happened but you have to be the advocate for your child so you did the right thing💕

m @mykennamburns seeee thats so awesome.

@aussiekiss, my son is already my best friend and he'll only be a month old this Monday

i understand darling bt to be honest as the years roll by u will see how unimportant friends are to begin w and how ur children turn into ur bestfriends. im 29 w 2 kids & im finally to the point of screw friends they really dont have ur best interest. she didnt seem like much of a friend anyway w her response to the well being of ur new baby.

@aussiekiss, I feel so much better! But I'm sad now because I don't have many friends to begin with, not even mom friends. I have one mom friend and my cousin

welp bye bish when u have kids disrespectful ass friends are nt allowed. good for u im glad u stood up for ur baby i bet u feel better huh?!

Exactly!! Like, I was super upset before but now I'm livid because she had the audacity to be offended.. I hate having friends who don't have kids because they don't understand

@mykennamburns, that's crazy that she would even be offended. It's not her kid
Who wants anybody sticking a finger in their child's mouth. A baby at that!

I just ended up telling her not to worry about it anymore because she won't be around him

She needs to shut up. It's not up for debate. Keep your fingers out of his mouth period. Washed or Unwashed

Welp, that friendship is over

@mykennamburns yeah thats when i would do it too. I actually learned that at the hospital because the nurses would do it cause i was having problems getting him to latch so they did that to see if he was even hungry. I started doing it at home until we both realized my finger was his binky but again it was my finger and i always washed my hands first. They are OUR kids though if we want to stick OUR fingers in their mouth then we can but for someone else to do it, especially without washing their hands. No I'd be livid

She proceeded to argue the point with me. Needless to say, I'm not going to allow her to hold him ever again