I think you shouldn't have to ask , the baby is his just as much as he is yours so he should already be doing things.. I have the same issue with my SO.. It's frustrating

@anacort it's alright

Wow I'm sorry

Ohhhh okay

@beebaby @anacort we don't live together anymore. He works all day and then comes home and drinks too much. So I bounced.

@nicoclev men don't know how when there that young they think they will drop them my man was like that but still doesn't help out unless he told

@nicoclev really. I couldnt do that. Mine has the kids from 6 to 4 while i work and i do the night shift. On the weekends they go to the gym and i go get my nails done or something but all week he literally does it all. I couldnt sleep next to him without wanting to cut him if he didnt help. It would piss me off

@beebaby @mom365247 it's no use. Something is always more important to him. He glared at me just now bc I gave him the baby to hold and said 'here go spend time with your dad'

Hell yeah. I got 3 kids so that doesnt fly your doing something period @mom365247

@nicoclev maybe you have to get him to understand that you need help and sometimes a break

@beebaby I be damned .. I'll kick him out real fast lmao

@anacort he'll feed him if and only if the bottle is already made and nobody else is around to do so. He's never changed his diaper, doesn't know how to calm him

@nicoclev he doesn't feed her

Wow. Thats crazy.

@beebaby @mom365247 the problem is that even when he is asked, he won't help. Only when someone starts to think he's not a good dad will he help.

@anacort sorry I thought you said with that. Messing up everything. Oh that's not how hes supposed to latch you're feeding him too much he's pooping too much. 😑😑😑

@mom365247 most guys wait for you to ask for help. I agree with your comment

@beebaby ask FOR WHAT? Lmao .. shouldn't have to ask nobody to help care for their child.

@anacort oh yes.

@nicoclev messing up with what

@anacort mine uses the Google to tell me how I'm messing up

My husband plays video games instead helping me to put her to bed or find online why she not sleeping at night and wakes up 6 times a night and she 18 months

@lovingbabyr EXACTLY

I think you shouldn't have to ask , the baby is his just as much as he is yours so he should already be doing things.. I have the same issue with my SO.. It's frustrating

@beebaby nah

Most of the time it is because you don't ask