I now see why a lot of relationships start getting bad after a baby. The men do NOTHING. the only…

Most of the time it is because you don't ask

@beebaby nah

I think you shouldn't have to ask , the baby is his just as much as he is yours so he should already be doing things.. I have the same issue with my SO.. It's frustrating

@lovingbabyr EXACTLY

@anacort mine uses the Google to tell me how I'm messing up

@anacort oh yes.

@beebaby ask FOR WHAT? Lmao .. shouldn't have to ask nobody to help care for their child.

@mom365247 most guys wait for you to ask for help. I agree with your comment

@anacort sorry I thought you said with that. Messing up everything. Oh that's not how hes supposed to latch you're feeding him too much he's pooping too much. 😑😑😑

@beebaby @mom365247 the problem is that even when he is asked, he won't help. Only when someone starts to think he's not a good dad will he help.

Wow. Thats crazy.

@anacort he'll feed him if and only if the bottle is already made and nobody else is around to do so. He's never changed his diaper, doesn't know how to calm him

@beebaby I be damned .. I'll kick him out real fast lmao

@nicoclev maybe you have to get him to understand that you need help and sometimes a break

Hell yeah. I got 3 kids so that doesnt fly your doing something period @mom365247

@beebaby @mom365247 it's no use. Something is always more important to him. He glared at me just now bc I gave him the baby to hold and said 'here go spend time with your dad'

@nicoclev really. I couldnt do that. Mine has the kids from 6 to 4 while i work and i do the night shift. On the weekends they go to the gym and i go get my nails done or something but all week he literally does it all. I couldnt sleep next to him without wanting to cut him if he didnt help. It would piss me off

@beebaby @anacort we don't live together anymore. He works all day and then comes home and drinks too much. So I bounced.

Ohhhh okay

@anacort it's alright