Why Do People Judge Faye's Eating Habits Without Knowing Her Story?

Does my head in when people comment about Faye's eating when they don't know her. She was premature and has trouble with her intestines and suffers with long term constipation because of it. So sometimes she prefers puree to solid food, she only eats certain things. She eats solid food now much better but still likes both. Then people say why's she eating mushed stuff rather than whole food at her age, my kid was eating solid from 6 month, why aren't you trying her with it. Pisses me off, not gonna force her to eat solids when all that day she's been trying to go to the toilet and is in pain. 😠