@melinanae, just feel stuck... due date is getting closer... still haven't got our own place. Haven't bought the baby anything. Car payments and phone bills are due. My step mom is trying to slip her rent 3 ways when we told her we couldn't do it because we have to save up but we're broke. I can't work because I'm high risk and my husband is so stressed out because he feels like he's not being the man he promised me
@mitiacarolina3, 😢I'm sorry that you're going through this. Your first experience should be stress free and fun... Try not to stress it everything will fall into place. Do not pressure hubby with the worries because then things will get harder for the both of you and you don't want to begin to resent him or for him to feel like a failure. One day at a time. Are you planning a baby shower? If not, all you really need are the essentials. Everyone goes crazy when they have a baby and everything pretty much goes to waste when the baby arrives because they grow so fast!
@melinanae, my older cousin felt like I needed a break so she's planning one for me.... but I don't feel like I'm going to enjoy it with everything going on
@mitiacarolina3, girl, do it! It will be a huge stress reliever! At least for the basic stuff. I wouldn't stress crib and all that. My son is 5 months and he hates his expensive crib lol I was better off getting those small play pens lol
Melina R·
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Uh ohhhh. You ok?
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@melinanae, just feel stuck... due date is getting closer... still haven't got our own place. Haven't bought the baby anything. Car payments and phone bills are due. My step mom is trying to slip her rent 3 ways when we told her we couldn't do it because we have to save up but we're broke. I can't work because I'm high risk and my husband is so stressed out because he feels like he's not being the man he promised me
Melina R·
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@mitiacarolina3, 😢I'm sorry that you're going through this. Your first experience should be stress free and fun... Try not to stress it everything will fall into place. Do not pressure hubby with the worries because then things will get harder for the both of you and you don't want to begin to resent him or for him to feel like a failure. One day at a time. Are you planning a baby shower? If not, all you really need are the essentials. Everyone goes crazy when they have a baby and everything pretty much goes to waste when the baby arrives because they grow so fast!
Tia Smith·
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@melinanae, my older cousin felt like I needed a break so she's planning one for me.... but I don't feel like I'm going to enjoy it with everything going on
Melina R·
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@mitiacarolina3, girl, do it! It will be a huge stress reliever! At least for the basic stuff. I wouldn't stress crib and all that. My son is 5 months and he hates his expensive crib lol I was better off getting those small play pens lol
Melina R·
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Also carters.com always has the best sales on line. I love that place!!!
Tia Smith·
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@melinanae, I was thinking about just getting him the graco beds that grow with him the 3 in one bed
Melina R·
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@mitiacarolina3, yes!!! 👌🏼
Tia Smith·
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@melinanae, and I haven't tried carters yet