Does anyone else have an overbearing MIL who seems to think everything is about them?

Girl my MIL will text me every single second of the day and if I don't reply right away she will say okay I guess I did something to piss you off. I'll leave you alone.

Mine commented this on my husband's fb post. Apparently she's supposed to see the twins all the time. Hers is the circled comment

Me 🙋😒

Yep

@skyy12221, how do you deal with it?

@bethanysmommy, how do you deal with it?

@twinmama611, well I've just started ignoring her texts and shit 😂😂

@bethanysmommy, I've been doing that since before the twins were born

@twinmama611 I ignore it and sometimes we get into it and my husband gets into it with her as well. She don't realize what she doing and if she does that's messed up

@skyy12221, his mom know exactly what she's doing. He rarely stands up to her which pisses me off and I don't say anything because I don't want to lose it on her because I know how I'd feel if my SO went off on one of my parents but I'm at the point where I will lose it on her very soon

@twinmama611 I was saying for my mil I'm not sure if she knows what she's doing or not. In your case that's messed up you need to talk to your hubby. You come first and if she comes at you he's supposed to protect you family or not! Tell him how you feel and I am the same way I've snapped on my mil but not to the full extent.

@skyy12221, ahh I got ya. he's slowly starting to do it, but he waits until I'm ready to go off before he does. When the twins were discharged she told people they could come to our home two days later and he didn't challenge her until I start freaking out loud enough for her to hear through the phone. I wish we didn't have to move so close to her

@twinmama611 he needs to speak up before you go off cause its gonna be one good time he won't be there to stop it in time

@skyy12221, yes because I've just had enough of her pettiness

@twinmama611 just defend yourself don't let her get away with whatever, hang in there hun!

@skyy12221, I will the next time she makes a petty comment about us taking the twins somewhere and not bringing them to her house

@twinmama611 smh boundaries in laws need to learn them

@skyy12221, YES! She probably won't though. Her own daughter has limited interactions with her

@twinmama611 dang then you know its bad

@skyy12221, yup! I know she's going to lose her mind once she finds out we're going to PA to see my family