What to do.. Little sister comes to me about everything she does (she's 14), and my dad dropped her…

You need to talk to her, and if she hates you it won't be for long because you'd be saving her, and 14 year olds have their heads up their asses most of the time. She's 14 not 18 and can get into very big trouble, it's better to stay out of it then to make a huge mistake and learn from it that way. She doesn't need to face an impeding danger that could come her way. Then if she doesn't agree or keeps of with these things I'd say talk to your dad. If she thinks she's all adultish then confront her like one.

@slewis1526, I wouldn't be her friend in this situation. If the men are 3x her age she can easily be raped or even murdered. The age of consent is 16 in my state, so she can't even legally give consent to sex. I'd be more so worried about her safety than her liking me.

As a big sis my choices would be A tell dad, B find the men 3x her age & kill them, C kick my sisters ass, or D all the above!!

@bluepenguin I've already tried confronting her myself about it, it's goes right over her head and she does the same shit all over again, she has already gotten herself in trouble a couple times, and she is trying to me 14 going on 30. She turns on me and says "who are you to give me advice or to worry about what I do with boys your knocked up" 😑

@liv.ola Ikr.. I've flipped out on the ones shes actually mentioned the names off, fought with her, and tried ramming it in her head that's she's messing up but she's not caring so I think it's dad time.

Say something! What if she was your daughter. She'll be ok. She doesn't know the trouble she's causing herself. If that was my sister, I'd tell her it's not right and that I'm going to tell our parents because I care about her and her safety. She'll hate me for a short period of time. I'm ok with that. I know it's hard, but they need to know. I'm very close to my lil sister, so I understand. What if she ends up pregnant, with a STD she can't get rid of, gets kidnapped, or ends up dead messing with the wrong man? Would you rather she hate you temporarily or you lose her to the lifestyle she's choosing permanently?

Talk to your dad... yeah, she'll be upset with you for a while, but what she's doing could lead her on a dangerous path if it continues. She's your sister, she'll forgive you eventually when she matures. I was in a similar situation with my sister.

@theinkedmommy I am more worried about her safety I just don't know how to approach the situation. She is one to swing if she gets pissed a you. She's full on tried to fight me before. I can't have her hit me right now. So not exactly sure how to go about it but I did tell my dad we need to talk about her.

@slewis1526, Do you live in the same household?

@slewis1526 how old are you? Well what if she gets knocked up?? You should definitely tell your dad then

@theinkedmommy yeah her and my dad just moved up from Florida and are staying with me.

@bluepenguin I'm 20 going on 21

@slewis1526, Well, I'd have the cops on standby after you tell your dad, because her trying to hit you while you're pregnant would get her ass beat in MY house. Have her know that either she can tell dad what she's doing, or you will, and if she wants to fight, the cops will kindly take her to jail.

@slewis1526 well it's better to have a baby at your age than hers! I had mine at 17.5, I was already out of school, she better be careful, it can end badly if she's messing with older guys

U should tell ur dad this is serious trust me God forbid anything bad happens from experience I been there and I got pregnant an its was traumatizing for me it's took me years of therapy and it took me into depression and I would not ever want someone to go through at that age

I agree with all you ladies. She's gullible and oblivious to what these guys are capable of doing to her. She's going to get it through her thick skull one day. I just hope she doesn't learn the hard way. Maybe that's what she needs to realize that guys are using her. You're going to be a Mom, so your mentality and perspective is in a whole other level.

I said something. Now the whole house is divided and she flipped on me and shoved me but I'm glad It was brought to my dads attention