I'm so upset. Like im really crying at this point. Being called an invalid just broke me. I went to…

I'm so upset. Like im really crying at this point. Being called an invalid just broke me. I went to the ER, actually to Obgyn department but had to go through ER to get there, anyways I went because my head has been killing me, I've had a really bad headache for 4 days now, blurry vision, light headed/dizzy, and feeling nothing but pressure from my head, mostly where my scar from a previous surgery is located. No medication, water anything is making the headache go away and the pressure is literally 24 hrs. I get checked in, wait 2 hours to get a room, the whole time trying to find a way to get away from loud noises and super bright lights because it's making my headache worse (if that's even possible), finally get a room, I get in the gown after giving a urine sample. NP (nurse practitioner) comes in asks the basic questions, says that most of what I'm describing could be from dehydration (which I agree to a point), orders a CT scan, I go in for the scan come back. Still not looked up to anything at this point, no IV nothing. NP comes back in and says the MRI, MRA and CT scan(s) that I've had done in the last 2 years at my age (even though all tests were negative so basically calling me a hypochondriac without saying it verbatim) tells her that I shouldn't be cooking, cleaning, driving, caring for a child and that I should be an invalid at this point. I shouldn't have a job or have been able to hold a job in the last 2 years. And shouldn't be pregnant and subjecting my child to these tests. *side note all of those tests including the 1st CT scan was done after my son was born and before I got pregnant this time. Only test I've had done during this pregnancy besides normal pregnancy related tests is the CT scan she ordered today* she then said all of those tests have been negative (again) and she has no clue what's wrong with me and I need to go to a different ER and have someone from neurology look at me. Told me even if I do no one is going to know what's wrong with me until I up the amount of fluid I get a day. She put in my discharge to avoid dangerous activities and put in parentheses cooking. Also my paperwork says I weigh 184. I weighed myself when I got home like I do after every appointment so I can keep track of my weight and it says 165.... my sister was on the phone during this visit and is filing a complaint with the hospital tomorrow.