Tired of empty promises from my boyfriend I know this sounds petty but earlier we were fooling…
Tired of empty promises from my boyfriend I know this sounds petty but earlier we were fooling around and I made him cum before we even started have sex (which I was like hey go me 😂) but anyway he kinda left me hanging which isn't the first time and it really upsets me. He promised that before he left for tonight he would have sex with me.... and it didn't happen even when I told him I wanted it he said oh well I am too tired. Like I said this isn't the first time and it pisses me off. He gets off and I am just left here. I cry because it happens so often.. makes me wonder if when he got me pregnant it was one of the times he got to cum and I didn't.. am I over reacting? 😭😭😭😭
Ro·
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IDK why but I was laughing .. Not petty just how you feel .. It is wrong tho lol
R🦖·
- I don't think you're overreacting. It's normal to be overly sensitive to things when you're pregnant. Being pregnant is hard. I haven't had sex in two months, given we broke up and he wants an abortion so we aren't really at a place for sex. I'd tell your bf how that bothered you. If anything, don't do what you did lol men can be selfish sometimes, just let him know he screwed up. But don't be too mean about it.
Courtney Lochamy 🌙·
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@beccaaalynnn11, immsorry to hear that! And the thing is, it's happened before and I've talked to him. It hasn't changed. It's not fair to me at all.
Es Snen·
Thats me an my dude too.. Ughh. Hang in there.
R🦖·
- Well I was so adamant about it, that Cooper was afraid to disappoint me, so sex made him nervous.. too much pressure. But sex with him is the best. Lol
My situation isn't ideal, but it's something I can handle. Just a struggle at times lol
Courtney Lochamy 🌙·
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@ebonybrown551, literally pisses me off it's not fair to us.
Es Snen·
@courtneyraelochamy have u tried..telling him to hold off for u
Courtney Lochamy 🌙·
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@ebonybrown551, yeah. He is selfish. He don't care. We are currently texting about it now and he is trying to say that it's my fault and that I need to get over it. I told him that he is being selfish and is giving me empty promises and that I don't want a guy that that in my life. Then he tries saying he is so sorry and that he is gonna fix it. It's stupid. It happens more often than not. He tries to fix himself when I say I am fed up. I stay because I love him but damn if he really cared he would just fix his shit and stop letting it get to the point where I am fed up and done.
Xai·
Give him a taste of his own medicine. Start something and don't finish. He'll see what it feels like, and maybe that'll make him think differently.
Es Snen·
@courtneyraelochamy ya.. He has too.. An its never ur fault.. Girl it takes more for us
R🦖·
- Ground him from sex then.. if he's going to be a little brat and try and blame you for his lack of caring and stamina, then I'd just not have sex with him until he was able to show you that it's about you. Just what I would do.
Courtney Lochamy 🌙·
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@xaixaii, @beccaaalynnn11, I'm tempted to but I don't want him looking elsewhere for sex. I don't want to lose him because of it. Or him cheat, I wish he thought of it that way.
R🦖·
- Is he the type to cheat ?
R🦖·
- I wouldn't be able to handle that crap. Cooper makes me finish once or twice before intercourse even happens. And it takes a lot for me to finish. But we've been together for almost five years. So he knows. But we've been there. Where he would put himself first and I'd be a cranky bitch until the next day when he got to try again. I don't know how long you've been together. I don't wanna say you have to train your man, but they'll learn. I'm telling ya, I was mean. But we also didn't have sex like teenagers. Both working 50 hours a week of physical labor, wasn't a whole lot of energy left at the end of the day lol I hope he gets his shit together for you. If anything you're just that hot that he finishes on sight. (: