Life is too short to stay mad. Since being a mother, I've learned patience and calmness. If your not calm, they won't be. Yes I'm tired and feel a bit over whelmed at times, just means I need to breath and to rememeber that these little people don't know what I know yet so I need to stay relaxed. Stressing for no reason is no good for you. I'm learning every day and I'm thankful for my 2 tiny babies. I love them oh so much.