VENTING So my sister came over to do my daughter's hair n the subject of my ex came up and of course…

VENTING

So my sister came over to do my daughter's hair n the subject of my ex came up and of course it led to an big argument. She for real think it's ok to basically talk on the phone to him and be friends with him n think it's ok for him to talk about me behind my back as long as she don't come to me.about what he say about me. N get this she think think it's ok bc she been doing it for years. He put her in the middle of my n his conversations even when we are "civil" he calls her when he don't want to do something for our child instead saying he can't. He will say he can do it to me but run to her n complain how he don't want to do it n how I know...she tells me. So now I know the loyalty lies with her... She sat there and defended the fact that she talking to him after this man has put me n my family (including her) thru hell on up till I got married n some times after that. My hubby who been giving me the silent treatment the last day or so had to calm me down n get back out of my face.....n he didn't say a word to me after that.... Idc about that either he can keep his distance from me too bc he raised he voice at me for nothing so... I'm just done today with them both...