This is my first time venting, but I need some kind of talk and somebody to tell me I'm not just…
This is my first time venting, but I need some kind of talk and somebody to tell me I'm not just crazy or stupid.
This last march, my boyfriend had cheated with a girl that was quite younger then me.. and I hate to shame other girls but to me I am much prettier and maybe that's just because I'm mad that she was the girl he cheated on me with and trust me she knew he had a girlfriend and he even told her about me, but either way to me I think I am much prettier then her (I hate to shame).. anyways, my boyfriend and I talked and yelled and screamed and fought so much over this and we broke up and then he told me he'd try again and he'd be a better man for me.. well long story short, we got back together, and then a month and a half after that we found out I was pregnant.. I love him to death and he loves his child so so much already but ladies I need input on if you'd get back with your man after all of this or if you'd just stay away.. I need something to help me out anything will be helpful right now.. I posted a picture of her if you want to see a picture of me go to my profile and look at my picture to get a reference of what she looks like compared to me.
Rikki🌙·
Girl, you're beautiful and he's an idiot! I think a lot of people would say they wouldn't go back but you never know till you're in that situation. Personally, I would never be able to get past it and trust him again so it wouldn't work.. I wouldn't go back.
Brooklynn Gray·
@rikki.ferguson, honestly I want this to work or at least to try to work because it's our little family we've been wanting for so long and now that it's actually happening I'm so scared of either losing the baby because of stressing out over everything or losing him and him not being in the babies life. I grew up without a daddy and I know how it's like so I wouldn't want my baby to go through it.. just so confusing and so many emotions all at once
Rikki🌙·
@gray.brooklynn006 my parents divorced when I was a kid over my Dad cheating on my Mom (men always downgrade when they cheat it seems). Honestly, I'm glad she left him and didn't put up with his shit. Sometimes there's a reason you don't need that person in your life. Whether it's a Dad, a mom, sibling, or father to your child. I'm just saying, don't let the kid be a reason for staying together because if that is the only reason (which you said it isn't) but that may be worse than if you were to separate.
Brooklynn Gray·
@rikki.ferguson, thank you ❤️
Rikki🌙·
@gray.brooklynn006 I hope I don't sound like I'm rambling. I'm tired and I hope I made sense.
Brooklynn Gray·
@rikki.ferguson, no! Not at all. Thank you for the input just needed venting and you've put things into more perspective!
Rikki🌙·
@gray.brooklynn006 well I'm glad I could help! 😁 try not to stress too much. You and that baby are everything right now. If you ever wanna talk just inbox me.
Christine R·
I agree with @rikki.ferguson, it all depends on your situation. I married the man who cheated on me. After it happened he was so willing to bend to my needs because of my emotional state. It was not easy and I definitely had trust issues but he had to understand and I had to forgive. We had a deal that I would never use it against him but when it was getting at me I would say, "I'm thinking about it and need support." We made it work. It's so far in our past now it's moot. Good luck!
mirandachristian·
My dad got with my stepmother when he was engaged to my mom. M step mom broke up a home she knew my dads situation that he was engaged and had 3 kids but yet she told me she still proceeded with the relationship. Long story short my father left my mom with 3 kids for my step mom even went to court with my step mom to take us from my mother. Him and my step mom have been married for 15 years and have two children together they are now going through a divorce as of 3 weeks ago due to my father cheating still and getting SME other girl pregnant ( I have a sister now who is 6yo) step mom thought she could change my father and that he wouldn't do what they did to my mother to her by she was sadly mistaken. Moral of the story ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS.A CHEATER👏💯
Erica Williams·
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I'm personally not one for giving second chances in these sort of situations (I mean, if you cheat once what's stopping you from doing it again...they knew what they were doing), however I suppose some people can change and actually do feel bad for doing it. If he really is trying to change and hasn't spoken with her or anyone he's previously been with, then maybe he deserves another chance. But, if it's stressing you too much, don't bother with it. Right now your health is more important 😃
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Once a cheater always a cheater no take backs period