Can't say I really get it then 🤔

@shizuoxx1996, she knows we me and my boyfriend fought about it. Their family you do not tell the older what to do or speak the wrong way. And it makes me so mad she needs to worry about her kids not mine

Try looking into there culture maybe and see what's do and don't 🤔 they may back off if the know your trying ?

@shizuoxx1996, I can't with their culture

It happens often I took a vladd on it with grandparents thing to parent your kids. You just have to have them sit down and explain your ok with there input but they are not the parent, there disciplinary. And you will try your way and if the kid are an issue to tell you or walk away.

Sometimes it's best to set a line and say your open to suggestions for not a takeover.