Something my husband says/does that really ticks me off: We just got back from out of town Sunday…
Something my husband says/does that really ticks me off:
We just got back from out of town Sunday evening, my husband brings in all our luggage and just piles it in dining room and living room. I'm super tired and achy, so I leave it there for the night. Monday I'm super busy, having awful pregnancy pelvic pain, but still manage to clean 90% of the mess my husband and sons made, and cook dinner.
Tuesday I'm once again busy with appointments, have grocery shopping to do (I make 1 trip every 3 weeks at Sam's, so it's a big job), hurting even more, but still manage to get everyone's mess cleaned again, and cook dinner. Plus I'm keeping up with a 1 year old who can walk, climb, and recently learned how to escape EVERYTHING .
So by this morning, everyone's luggage has made it to their room, but hasn't been put away. A couple loads of laundry are folded on the kitchen table. And despite the fact that I pick up all of the toys multiple times a day, toys are scattered throughout the house.
My husband says this morning ,while getting ready for work, "Can you do me a favor, can you get the house put back together today?"
😐
As if I've just been lounging around instead cleaning the house.
Buddhist Mama·
My husband makes the same comments and it pisses me off. He mentioned how I leave things out in the kitchen lately and I was like "its better than leaving shit in our room all the time" because we actually HAVE to keep our room clean at all times to live here with our daughter. smh men can be annoying lol
JoAnna Davis·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
@ilovemychildren I know! The majority of cleaning I even do is after him 😑
🌹Shantell🌹·
He has some nerve @joanna.davis Next time he comments make it clear that if you didnt always have to clean up after him which diverts you from your ACTUAL productive cleaning, that you could get your duties done. Or even better yet, tell him if he doesnt like the way it looks, to start helping you and stop being a prick. Hes got two arms and two hands, instead of using his big mouth he can use the practical members of his body 😂😎 Hellz no, I'd never let my husband say that to me without a quick lesson! Its very disrespectful.
JoAnna Davis·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
@simplyshantell I try to just remind myself that I married a moron, and let it roll off my back 😅
🌹Shantell🌹·
@joanna.davis yes to the rolling off your back part, no to allowing him to disrespect you like that. You deserve more. You have a lot on your plate..
JoAnna Davis·
Мама двоих (1 год, 6 лет), ждёт третьего
@simplyshantell Well, he makes up for his occasional dumb comments by being considerate in a lot of other areas. It frustrates the hell out of me when he makes a comment like that, but it's not worth starting an argument over to me. And he probably doesn't even realize he's being rude 🙄