Hey, So with my first pregnancy I had hypermesis from 4 weeks pregnant. I was admitted into hospital…

I I'm dealing with hypermesis I've been in and out of hospital and stayed other nights and I have a toddler I didn't have it with her but this one I do it's hard but do able just gotta keep yourself busy

@mummyof2xxxx I literally couldn't move for 9 months! I couldn't lift my head at all. I was totally bed ridden. My mum's retiring early so she will be there every single day for my little girl but I'm really struggling whether I should try. I was put on anti sickness tablets for people on chemo as nothing medicines worked for me :(

I had hypermesis It's really horrible. And just thought of being pregnant again scares me now. Xx

When I was 18 I fell pregnant I had hyperemesis from 4 weeks and I couldn't hack it so I had a termination at 13 weeks (I had hoped it would go) I fell pregnant last year and also had hyperemesis again, from beginning until end(37 weeks when I begged to be induced) they told me the chances I would have it again are very high. It's awful and the worst thing I've ever been through i was admitted more then 30 times and took chemotherapy tablets from beginning to end. It's so draining and a very hard choice as to weather i would have another baby x

@howzyxx I'm glad someone understands! Your just round the corner from me. Did you go to stepping hill hospital? Wythenshawe refused to induce me I was so so so desperate. My daughter absolutely loves being in the company with other children and id be absolutely heartbroken if I couldn't give her a brother or sister but I'm really struggling. It's not just the physical side of it but the emotional side to it! Xx

Yeah I literally told them I'm at my wits end and I will cut her out if they don't do something to help me. Sounds very drastic to others but I seriously was the most depressed i had ever been and my friend was pregnant at the same time and able to enjoy it all I was just miserable and bedridden because I was so poorly. I won't even think about having another baby until my daughter is in school, if it happens again I don't want to miss out on things with her growing up because I'm so poorly or in hospital. I'm sorry you've had to go through it too, it really is the worst thing I've ever gone through xxx

@howzyxx Wythenshawe wouldn't induce me but thankfully she came 2 weeks early anyway. I have a mortgage to pay I couldn't take any more time off work. It's getting me so down at the moment I'm so desperate for number two. I want them to be close in age as well. It's a catch 22 xxx

I would like them close together too but I can remember it so well with her only being 4months old and I cried every day for 8 months, it was awful. It really is hard but I just couldn't do it until she's older, I hope you find a solution or fingers crossed it doesn't happen again to you xx

@howzyxx my mum's going to retire early so she can look after me and poppy. I'm trying to find a hospital which will support me more but I'm going to have to do my research. Wythenshawe used to isolate me as well and it was horrid! I do not miss long days in hospital what so ever! I have addisons disease anyway so I'm in hospital a lot and the hospital let Poppy stay with me all day but she doesn't like to see it either. How are you finding motherhood xxx

Its been brilliant, she isn't a great sleeper but she's such a good baby. I'm sorry but I'm not sure what that is... that would be a lot of help but nothing makes it easier does it 😢 it really is such a horrible thing to go through i actually wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy xx

They have given me anti sickness where I was so bad I couldn't eat of drink and I was stuck on the coach and I take & tablets a day it hasn't gone completely but I am able to look after my daughter and eat and drink

@mummyof2xxxx unfortunately no amount of tablets or injections enabled me to eat. I had to go on IV drips to get fluids into me. It was horrific. I went 8 months without a proper meal and 8 months without being able to finish a drink. If I'm the same as I was last time I wouldn't be able to look after my daughter what so ever and that's what frightens me xx

@howzyxx I think you get used to sleep deprivation. Does your partner help with the night feeds babes? Poppy is 1 now and still gets up just as much. I'm going to try that lush sleepy cream which has been in the paper! Xxx

He does help but I'm still awake when he soothes her. I am used to having no sleep just sometimes it gets too much. Let me know if it works xx

@howzyxx I will it's by her cot so I don't forget later on ❤ I'm desperate for a good night's sleep! Xxx

@catherineln25 did it help at all?xx

@howzyxx She settled an awful lot quicker with it 👌👌👌 she didn't sleep straight through but wasn't up as long when she did wake up xxx