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aburch1527
Ally·Мама четверых детей
I'm so tired of yelling and no body listening to what I say. I feel like all I do is tell all day long and no one hears a word I say. I've come to the conclusion I'm done yelling, I'll say things one time and if it doesn't happen then we are going into time outs. I feel like such a shitty mom cuz I have to yell all the time to get anyone to do anything. So I'm just done and need to fine a new way.
15.08.2017
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aburch1527
Ally·Мама четверых детей
@brendamariex3 The last 2 days I've said I'm done yelling I'll give you 3 chances to do what I said and if you strike out then you go in a time out. My anxiety has been through the roof lately and I'm just done yelling. So far my 6 year old has told me she hates me and I'm just like you'll get over it.
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amommyofp
Amanda W.·Мама сына (8 лет)
@aburch1527, I'm also a teacher so message me and we can talk about some things I use in my classroom that may help at home.
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aburch1527
Ally·Мама четверых детей
@amommyofp it just seems like that is the only way they listen. I've done time outs, taking away toys, making them do a simple chore but nothing else seems to work.. 😕 I'm so stressed out and just can't mentally yell anymore
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amommyofp
Amanda W.·Мама сына (8 лет)
Try talking in a quieter than normal voice. I've found that it works better than yelling. Also sometimes, in my experience, yelling may come off as being crazy. (I'm in no way saying that you are crazy, this is just based on my experience)
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