When's the latest you guys have had an abortion? I'm almost 10 weeks in and I'm still not happy…

I've never had an abortion but I understand about not being happy. We planned this pregnancy and since I got pregnant my bf has been an asshole, moved out and broke up with me. It's been tough. I wasn't happy about my pregnancy until like 20/21 weeks... everyday I'm still a crying wreck about him being gone but I try as much as possible to just focus on meeting my baby girl and how she's going to teach me unconditional love.

@colombianprincess, wow.. that's insane. And he left for good? That's horrible

How it was also

Planned accordingly to him and now he's acting such way. Smh. I'm truly

Sorry for what you're going through

@juliannap, I'm not sure if he's gone for good....he doesn't call me and I don't see him. He was so happy when the test was positive that I don't know how he made such a crazy turn around. Thanks. I'm sorry for what you're going through too.

Just remember everything happens for a reason...dont make any quick decisions that you could regret forever. God won't give you what you can't handle! You got this.

You have to research the laws in your state, because some are diffrent. But if thats what you are planning on doing, I would do it very soon. Im so sorry you're unhappy hun 😢

Whatever decision you make it a tough one. I wish you the best through this journey and whatever you decide know there are people you can talk to.

Depends on the laws in your state!

They won't even let you get one until you're 9 weeks along. I had mine at 12 weeks at 19 years old.

I had mine when I was in the early stages of my relationship 4 years ago. Im happy I waited and had this baby now. Having that support is huge and I wanted to enjoy my pregnancy the whole way through. You deserve to be happy. Mine was at 9 weeks