Tell me if I'm over reacting. My BD had this friend, him and this friend got in legal trouble a…
Tell me if I'm over reacting. My BD had this friend, him and this friend got in legal trouble a couple years back and they continued doing doing the same stupid shit until I finally snapped. He still hangs out with this total fucking loser and refuses to listen to me when when I say anything. I hate this guy because of all the stupidity that they they have done. Opinions?
Samantha Lira·
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@vanessagarcia he said "we've been friends since third grade. He isn't going anywhere." I told.him he had to choose me and his baby, or his punk friend. He obviously chose his friend.
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Your boyfriend is equally as responsible and still wants to be around this person so he will have to deal with the consequences. He isnt being forced. It is up to you to decide if you want to stay with someone who would want to hang around trouble, might end up getting you caught up
Samantha Lira·
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@beebaby especially now with the baby and stuff. It's hard... He told me he'd take me to court and get all rights to our child.
FlowerChild🌼·
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Your BD is grown he should know when it's time to cut someone off, and he has to want to...he won't do it just because you said so EVEN THOUGH you guys are a family with a baby on the way.
Samantha Lira·
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@vanessagarcia thank you, so much. I walk on eggshells with him because he always threatens to take the baby
Samantha Lira·
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@torrey_ he won't want to either.
FlowerChild🌼·
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@sammeeandbaby, give him an ultimatum. His friends or you
Samantha Lira·
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@torrey_ I did that.
Samantha Lira·
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@vanessagarcia I messaged yoh.
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@sammeeandbaby Why do i keep hearing this from mothers. Why are willing to stay with someone who threatens to take your child from you. He is the least likely person to get custody of your child over you because he has had legal issues in the past. He cant take your child away and the fact that he says that proves he doesnt give a shit about his childs mother.
Samantha Lira·
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@beebaby but his legal trouble was juvenile. He's 19. I'm 17.
FlowerChild🌼·
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@sammeeandbaby, it's time to put some action behind it and stop talking to him until he shows you different
(Went through the same with my SO)
Otherwise your threats don't mean 💩
And it'll get annoying to him
Samantha Lira·
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@torrey_ okay. Thank you
FlowerChild🌼·
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@sammeeandbaby, be strong you got it
Samantha Lira·
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@torrey_ it's honestly one of the hardest things I have ever done.
FlowerChild🌼·
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@sammeeandbaby, it sucks but you have a baby on the way and that's your priority. Not him and his friends. He should only be a priority when he's is making you his!
I literally left my SO until he got it together. I didn't take our son away from him but anything related to our relationship was dead until he showed me different
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The day you became pregnant you are now considered an adult. He cant take your child