Will probably be making a cross country move in about 8 weeks to either North Carolina or buffalo ny. My husband can't…

Will probably be making a cross country move in about 8 weeks to either North Carolina or buffalo ny. My husband can't understand why I am stressed. We don't even know where we are moving to, we have 2 small children, and we will have to get our house ready to rent out without touching our savings because our savings isn't even enough for the security deposit and first months rent. Not to mention that if we don't have a tenant in our house we have to cover the mortgage payment as well. Not a stressful situation at all.