don't understand anyone. my mom is upset and obviously acting different (bitchy) because i'm taking…

don't understand anyone. my mom is upset and obviously acting different (bitchy) because i'm taking my daughter to her other grandmothers house. she keeps throwing little jabs like "she don't stay here" or "that's not her only family" but when my daughter was first born my boyfriends mom felt the same way, she would only see her through Facetime. i mean im not trying to be a bitch but not you know how it feels. (i say that because she would give me a hard time when i would wanna take her to them) then she wants to sit here and say "Ma is dying" (my grandmother) & you don't even go see here or you just go for 15 minutes and leave but you'll be over there (in laws house) all day. she tries to make me feel bad, she tries to make me do what she says and wants and at this point i'm tired of it all. i just wanna knw how to move out without having to struggle so much. 😩