@bpmadden2, the whole thing is frustrating. Confusing. And down right not worth the headache that was my only take on it, But this post right here,yeah it was after we spoke but this was my intake on the whole system of child support. Sorry you felt it was towards you.

@rhomiilove412, right but I feel like you said this after we talked about it and you believe the lies from ole boy🤷🏽‍♀️

@bpmadden2, aww I never got it swear. And no it wasn't for you …promise 😔 I've been screaming I was against it from the beginning. Had nothing to Do with you.

@rhomiilove412, for me and I surely did I never got a response

@bpmadden2, wait…shade for who. And you never hit me back up?

If the father has never supported the child then yes they should pay period 😘

Shade 🤷🏽‍♀️

@dogmom12, like any mother should 💪🏽👏🏽

@dogmom12, yeah that's different. But see it this way. If your forced to pay something and not giving an option. You wouldn't want to pay child support either 🤷🏽‍♀️

@shyshy2.3, exactly! I totally understand those conditions But there's so many women I know that are just taking advantage of this system. It's forever in our favor and yeah a man helped create the child but regardless we opened our legs and let him in and if he don't want to be around… be a woman with the spirits of a thousands women that did it before us without a mans help and do the damn thing. Back in the day we never had the support of the system and we made the dream work with just what we had. We came out pretty good and pretty damn strong 💪🏽
Just my view

I feel that the father should have to support his child regardless because he helped make the baby, but I do not agree on spending that money on things that aren't for the child's needs 🤷🏼‍♀️ If you don't need it then put it in a savings account for your child it will benefit them in the long run. I also think that if the fathers are unable to pay child support they should still have a right to see there child instead of the child being used as a pawn the father should have a way to work it out with the judge like probation instead of not seeing there child. I wish the system wasn't so fucked tbh. I don't use child support because I'm married and with my child's father but I have learned from my brothers situation that the system is pretty messed up🤷🏼‍♀️🙃