Hi moms question who all lives with there spouses parents. My question is I had my second baby girl…
Hi moms question who all lives with there spouses parents. My question is I had my second baby girl on August 7th 2017 will we came home in all and got settled and between me and my Hubby's mom I having a feeling this might be a compition on holding and feeding and changing my baby girl and I can feel my self getting over whelmed and I'm hopeing and praying that its not that she will let her son and I be parents to are second baby because we didnt get to with my first which was a huge mistake.
Avah Cruz·
If it was like that with your first it will probably be like that with this one. You just need to put your foot down.
Summer Holmes·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@avahcruz yea I have a feeling on that and she told me on this one she's gonna let us be parents yea ok we will see
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Mine thinks she's gonna be doing all the work but I'm gonna be hogging my baby up an everything lol I don't care what she says it's my first only time she is allowed will be when I have to shower 😅
Summer Holmes·
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@spongey yea when I had my first she completely took over and then tried to say ok next time I'm gonna back off and let y'all be the parents and I wanted to tell her haha yea ok gotta see that to believe that and she never keeps her word so I'm scared and nervous on this one because I didnt get to spend time with my first when she was an infant. So it hurts and when I talk to her about it its like she dont listen she just does whatever she wants to do.
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@amelliaholmes1457 keep her close I told my guy, that I don't want her to spend so much time with her bc we don't want our baby to be so spoiled, like when I have to go to work in day time my guy can take care of her since he works nights. I've seen her other grand kids and I just don't want ours to be like them lol
Summer Holmes·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@spongey right yea that's if mine would do that when my six weeks goes up because I know she will be spoiled even when its her second grandchild but we will see and I feel like I dont have a bond with u first one she only has it with daddy and nana so I'm hoping and praying that I have it with my second baby girl
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@amelliaholmes1457 ya good luck girlie! Don't let her win, just be mean but in a nice way lol 😉
Summer Holmes·
Мама двоих (младенец)
It hurts I just want t have a bond with her cause it feels like I don't even have a bond with my first one.