Anyone else regret meeting their child's father? Shit is depressing knowing that this could be my…

One of the reasons I'm happy my baby daddy won't be involved lol

That's how I felt after I had my son. I would cry because I felt bad for myself lol like why do I have to deal with this for the rest of my life. And just like the piece of crap he is, he's been in and out of jail and now serving years in prison and out of my life.... for now at least.

@nerualauren, ugh that's horrible!!! Don't you wish you could just see the future! Shit if I could I would of never made such a mistake 😩

@juliaschade41, I hope I'm as lucky as you Lol!

@briannahill1293 well....I don't know who the baby daddy is.....

@juliaschade41, what do you mean?im lost lol

@briannahill1293 i don't know who the father is to my child.

@juliaschade41, oh yea that's a terrible feeling I went through the same thing when I first found out. It's nerve wrecking 😭😭😭 I'm sorry

@briannahill1293 do you know who you're baby daddy is?

@juliaschade41, yes I do at first I was kind of unsure but once I found out the conception date it was like oh ok Lol but being unsure isn't definitely not a good feeling. But hey it happens

@briannahill1293 yeah I won't know until I see her lol

@juliaschade41, are you gonna tell the dad when you realize who it is?

@briannahill1293 I think i have an idea according to the conception date. Not 100 percent but pretty sure. And no I won't. If it is who i think it is, he's long gone. I blocked everyone out of my life during that time era and that dude was an illegal immigrant. He's long gone somewhere. No contacts nothing and I found out he doesn't care for any of his kids. Just impregnated women and leaves. I believe he's the one who took advantage of me while I was blacked out while my bf was gone for a while and even told my bf later on that he wasn't gonna stick around. For all I know he could have been sent back to Mexico by now. I don't care honestly. My daughter only needs me.

@juliaschade41, wait wait wait!? So your baby was conceived by please forgive me for saying this rape? Omg this is horrible I'm so sorry to hear omg lord have mercy you gotta be one of the strongest I've ever come across. That's something extremely hard to deal with god bless you seriously, you're gonna be a wonderful mother I see it already

@briannahill1293 thanks hun. It was my choice to drink with people i shouldn't have. I hung around bad company back then. But yes it is unfortunate how things played out. But I love my daughter with all my heart and i honestly wouldn't change the situation for the world. Being pregnant has honestly saved my life.

I@juliaschade41, I understand completely, we've all made some bad decisions but one thing is for certain children are most definitely a blessing

@briannahill1293 oh yes. I'm very excited.