@torrey_love, Yea I Rarely Pump Gas, Trash Is Occasional

I don't take out the trash ever.
I don't even pump my own gas when my SO is home. He won't let me 🤷🏾‍♀️

@vamommy89 and that's great. I'm not complain about my SO or saying that if the man works and you stay home he shouldn't have to do anything. Of course he should! I'm just putting in my side of it and I prefer to do everything else myself. I'm pretty sure even if I worked I'd still want to do everything. Before I had my DD I raised my nephew's (4 of them!!!). I worked, cooked, cleaned, did homework, baths, bedtime, P-T meetings, IEP meeting, shopping, doctors appointments etc....

If you both work and pay bills than the house work and kids should be equal work. Im a full-time SAHM. My SO works mon-fri 11-17 hours a day and pays for everything. So I do everything else. I take care of the trash as well even though he walks right past where the trash goes to get picked up to get to his work truck I still do it. Im more than happy to do all the other stuff mostly because a neat freak and like stuff done my way or no way (when it comes to the household, I'm not a controlling bitch, lol) That's just me.

@annmonyeh, true that

@shellbell0391, we both live here & pay rent, responsibilities should be shared, not all on one person

@annmonyeh, I know. I can't stand when my boyfriend doesn't do shit around the house. I just stop doing stuff and eventually he gets tired of the clutter and cleans lol

@shellbell0391, yea I can't stand half ass cleaning. If you're gonna take the trash out, take all of it out & replace the bags. I would do it but I'm just tired of doing everythingggg all he time & he just does what's convenient. His one simple job is the trash, I just don't get why it's so hard smh

Ian only takes out the kitchen garbage and then doesn't replace the bags in the outside trash cans. There is also a bathroom trash can and a small living room trash can that need to be emptied and the cat box should be cleaned once more and he doesn't do that. AND the outside bags should be replaced so when we have to take something outside it's easy to just toss them in the garbage can. But like I said ian sucks at it so I just do it. He did it when I was pregnant and the way he did it bugged me so bad lol

I take out the trash. Ian sucks at it lol

@vamommy89, yea I could have worded it better, but I just find myself doing everything recently, cleaning cooking, taking care of out LO all day, all I ask of him is to take the trash cause I hate it

@ilovemychildren, it could have been but I find myself doing it more than he ever has

@rebeccathomas06, I Think It's Gross Too, I Grew Uo With 4 Brother & I Was Always The One To Do All The Chores. I'm Not Doing It Anymore 🤷🏾‍♀️

It can be a shared chore

@vamommy89, I do everything, the least he could do is take the trash out, instead of leaving it by the door

I won't take the trash out! It grosses me out! And, I have finally trained my husband to do it without arguing! 🤣 It only took like 6 years...😳