I love how my ex doesn't feel the need to brush my sons teeth in his care. Like wtf?! 🙄 and me…

Just more evidence for when you go to court

I don't necessarily have solid proof. But I can tell by how my sons toothbrush is that it hasn't been used. But idk if that's enough. He could lie and say he has his own for him. Dude doesn't even put him in any of the PJ's I pack for him either.. So he just puts him to bed with what he wore all day?! When he's been crawling around on his nasty floors. So gross. I feel awful for my son that he doesn't get the proper care there with him like he does here. I have a strict routine I stick too. His dad does what ever he wants. He told me he let him nap from 630-830 the other night and then he said he went down for him and slept all night after. I'm like yeah right! He's such a liar, like I don't know my son. @eryka616,

Text messages are always great proof so maybe if you text him asking about things he might say no why do I have to brush his teeth it might work lol

He told me in person that " oh he's going to lose those teeth anyway" after I told him he needed to brush them. He knows his way legally he works for the govt so he knows his way around shit and he lies about everything. @eryka616,

@missjess, damn it I'm so sorry

Yeah, it truly sucks and idk how I'm suppose to deal with it. I'm going to see if we can get court mandated to see a family psychologist or something to work together so we can be better co parents for our child. But I have a feeling that's not going to do much cause he thinks he's in control and is going to do whatever he wants anyway but he needs to stop being petty and let shit go with me. I have but he's impossible and every time I try to be the bigger person he's just awful about everything and makes no effort. @eryka616, 😩😩😩

@missjess , so sorry youre in this situation 😡. It really sounds horrible.. the reality is that not brushing his teeth and not changing his clothes before bed isnt anything major enough for any of his rights with Andrew to be taken, although it's neglectful he just sounds like the typical shit bag father who just does whatever he wants, making it even more frustrating to deal with him. Soon, Andrew will get older and learn to live with his routine on his own.. thats why its important YOU continue to be a good example to him, a loving and hardworking mother so that he can grow up with those principles in his head and that way your shitbag ex will learn from your son whats right from whats wrong and maybe your son will teach HIM a few things about his routine and his schedule when its done properly.

Then and only then will your Ex see the real picture here.. the fact that hes a lazy parent will sink in and then maybe he will buck up when he sees his son taking care of himself or noting the differences between when hes with you, as opposed to when hes with him. For now, keep notes of everything, record him as much as possible and point out the importance of your current routine. @missjess

Thanks Hun! I'm trying my best and can only hope it will be like that when he's older.@simplyshantell,