Last night hubby was showing me something on his phone and as soon as he got a text he snatched it…

I went through my husbands phone and saw him talking to a prostitute. according to him nothing ever happened. I got divorce papers drawn up and told him i was leaving. He has been amazing these past 6weeks but we'll see what happens

I am so sorry you are dealing with that! I would have lost my shit if my hubs did something like that!! Sounds like he needs to reevaluate your relationship and what you mean to him!! I get that didn't have sex but he shouldn't be flirting with another woman. Beyond disrespectful!! I would confront him tonight and ask him what's going on.

I'd have to call the woman and ask her myself! As for him...I don't know what I would do in that situation...make him change his number and really talk to him and see if I felt confident enough to give him a 2nd chance because he was talking to a woman during time when he was with you. I'm sorry you're going through this and I hope you do what is best for you.

@scarapella1, I kept saying why did you do this to me. And he said I'm fucked up idk why I'm just fucked up and then he said am I gonna lose you and I said idk yet I don't wanna sleep here tonight and he said I'll sleep on the couch please just don't go anywhere else

@pattycakemom, thank you. It just hurts so bad because for the past 2 years I never felt this way. I feel like I don't even know him.

@babyking1 I can imagine. I remember the first time I felt like my husband wasn't perfect. I know that sounds crazy but I always saw him as perfect and amazing and when the thing happened that made me not see him like that anymore it broke my heart. People mess up, yall just have to see if yall can get past it. You know yall relationship better than any of us and I truly hope you can work it out or be at peace with whatever decision you make.

@pattycakemom, this morning he said I'm sorry I messed everything up and I said we'll get through it. There's been a couple of things with me that have put him through hell in the past couple years (nothing like cheating) just my own personal issues. And he said I hope we do. And I said if you ever pull something like this I will be done. And I said don't expect me to be okay for the next few weeks because I won't be and he said I know. But then I had to leave for work. We haven't spoken since. I know he is sorry but I just don't understand why. I try my best to be the best partner and mom and I don't understand why he would want to do something like this.

@pattycakemom, pull something like this again*

@babyking1 there's got to be something that he feels he's missing to have done something like that. Yall need to make the time to sit down and really talk and he's going to have to tell you the truth about why he did it what she possibly could've done or was doing that you weren't. What he feels he's missing...not that you're doing anything wrong. Communication is key...not to sound cheesy but it is. It has to be inside out front back side to side talked about. Yall have to cover everything.

@raisinghazel, I'm sorry to hear that. It really hurts so much to find out the man you love is not who he says he is. And having a baby involved makes things so much harder.