So I got upset last night as I am 19 weeks pregnant right and I went to bed after my husband and I…
So I got upset last night as I am 19 weeks pregnant right and I went to bed after my husband and I watched a movie and I kissed him goodnight like I do every night. I was laying in bed and I hear these noises and he did turn the TV off already and I was like what and I got up and caught him masterbating! I was like omg really and not that I really would be upset under normal circumstances but he hasn't really been interested in sex in months.. And we always had a great sex life and everytime now I try to approach him he pushes me away.. So I walked away and he was like no no no and then we had great sex... I guess I was just really hurt and I know I am emotional and cranky but that's why it's been so long and I need to get out all my tension. The thoughts were then going through my head has been doing this the entire time he's been rejecting me and I did come up with enough courage to ask him and he said no.. He said he just feels weird because I am pregnant but we both know that's its really good as I been seeing in the articles.. I am feeling better today but I just didn't expect it. Any advise or thoughts would be greatly appreciated! Thanks
JoAnna Davis·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
Unfortunately I think most guys become less interested in sex while you're pregnant. Maybe it comes down to basic instincts, you've already procreated so his biology is telling him his job is done 🙄
My husband told me at a certain point, once I'm so big, that's it's actually uncomfortable to have sex. Like it hurts his penis some how. No idea how.
Roselle Massare·
@joanna.davis, thank you for your input.. That makes me feel better as it's not just me. Men are weird sometimes...
JoAnna Davis·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
@rbrockport78 I have a high libido in general, and it spikes while I'm pregnant, so it really sucks.
But pretty much as soon as i was back home from the hospital after having our last baby, he was drooling over me and asking if we really had to wait 6 weeks, lol.
Roselle Massare·
@joanna.davis, lol well thats going to be another issue when we get there!
Harley Quinn ·
It's totally normal. I was actually the reverse, I had zero interest in sex when I was pregnant. It hurt and I just wasn't comfortable the whole time. And after the fact my husband even said he was too worried about how I felt to actually enjoy it himself.
Roselle Massare·
@littleonemorning, awww that's sweet! I think my husband used to be that way and now he don't think of me just is worried about the baby getting hurt! Idk
Harley Quinn ·
@rbrockport78, that could be it too! Plus with our hormones are so out of whack, he probably doesn't know how to tell you. lol
Roselle Massare·
@littleonemorning, yes that's true!!