My husband and his best friend got into an argument a few months ago and haven't spoken since. So…
My husband and his best friend got into an argument a few months ago and haven't spoken since. So today is my husband's last day home (he's leaving tomorrow morning for annual training which is a month long for him). We were supposed to spend the night together and just enjoy our time. Instead his friend comes over out of nowhere and they make up and they're playing Xbox... so much for our last night together 😥
Marilu·
Sometimes I just can't stand men and their immaturity. How is it so easy for them to put us last all the time? Ugh
Emily Mallegni·
Мама дочки-младенца
@morganmommy79 I'm sitting here and my husband keeps looking back at me like he's sorry. And I'm like hello you know what you're doing just tell him to leave!
Marilu·
@emily526, seems like they're more loyal to their friends. In my case my husband is more loyal to his brother. And he keeps reminding me how they grew up close and they're only a year apart. SO WHAT! You're married now!!! Things change but he don't get it
Emily Mallegni·
Мама дочки-младенца
@morganmommy79 Girl you're preaching to the choir. I tell him all the time idc who it is, how long you've been friends, etc. I'm your wife aside from your daughter I come first.
Marilu·
@emily526, idk if you read my recent post but my husband is currently mad at me because I won't allow his 34 year old single brother come to my daughters sweet 16 party tomorrow. 🙄he actually made threats to leave with his brother during the party and leave me hanging with it all
Emily Mallegni·
Мама дочки-младенца
@morganmommy79 Yes I did read that I think it's crazy! He should always be there for you no matter what. It's not fair for him to do that at all honestly. A grown mans brother should not come before his family.
Marilu·
@emily526, he's got so much to learn. He wants another baby but when I asked him to hold the baby tonight so I could eat he ran to the bedroom and said he's going to bed. Then argued with me when I asked why he couldn't help with her. He works all week and is tired.... so sick of that repetitive argument he has
Emily Mallegni·
Мама дочки-младенца
@morganmommy79 My husband does help with our daughter so I am grateful for that. But it's me who he seems to sometimes neglect. I don't want to sound ungrateful because I know more often than not he does try. But with him having a job that requires him to be away for long periods at a time I feel like he should appreciate our time together a little more.
Marilu·
@emily526, I just don't think guys think at all. Maybe you should find something to get into. 🙁 my husband takes care of the yard but won't do anything else and he's a slob. I could deal with it better if he'd do more with the baby but he barely helps there either.
Betsy V ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)
Awww sometimes they don't get it. Just talk to him