So I want opinions on how other moms would feel in my situation. My daughter's birthday is coming up…

No your not wth,she's doing it on purpose in my case,but honestly nobody is gunna care her son is all dressed up unless she makes a huge deal about it,it's YOUR daughters day dress her up,and if you don't appreciate what she's doing let her know

People like that need to be the center of attention. If that's how she is you can't change that. Just don't stoop to her level. Just let it go don't let it bother you. She sounds sad really

I'm petty af and I would send out invitations stating that it's nothing formal and request that people do not dress up, in bold letters on the invitation. Fuck that bullshit.

@intelligentmind2015 She honestly probably will because she's such a never shut up type of person. You can ask her where she is and you'll get the entire story of where she went before you get the answer to your question. I've asked her so many times why she thinks she needs to dress him up and she says " because you're dressing Raven up" to which I respond "Yeah because it's HER party" and she just keeps on

@ilovemychildren It's just so obnoxious.

@damiensmommy1117 I'm seriously considering putting something like "extremely casual, dress kids to get dirty"

@ravens_mommy

I've got no strong ties with my family so if she showed up like that anyways I would ask them to leave, but Idk how your family is..

@damiensmommy1117 My immediate family is close. I just have gotten where I can't stand her.

You should not tell her any details of the party @ravens_mommy

I honestly hate people like that. It's your baby's bday, it should be her special day!! She sounds like someone who constantly wants attention. If someone announced they were pregnant at my baby shower, I would have lost if! So rude! My sister got pregnant through IVF and we had my cousin's baby shower and she didn't announce til weeks after out of respect for her. That's the right thing to do.

@ravens_mommy, oh she's one of those people it looks like she's trying to outdo you or to try to be better than you, I think in her mind she thinks it's a competition and that's not cute

@scarapella1 As soon as she found out I was pregnant she went to the bank for the loan to do IVF and when it didn't take the first time I down played my pregnancy and acted not excited because we live together for a couple days out of the week and I was trying to be considerate of her. She actually tested the morning of my baby shower and wasn't supposed to because she could have gotten a false positive with a urine test because of the hormones she was on.

@intelligentmind2015 Right? It's a baby's birthday party, not a pissing contest.

@ravens_mommy, yeah you need to tell her to calm her nips