Omg I found out im having a girl today Im so excited but sad at the sametime because I thought my marriage was going to work but he is abusive on top of many other things its sad because I literally can't do anything but pray for him and walk away because i can't change or fix him I can't take all of the pain and abuse I went through away he broke my trust and my HEART... People tell me you should be pissed of at him or you shouldn't care so much but when you really love someone you want to help them in the case I can't. This shit really hurts man.........