Omg I found out im having a girl today Im so excited but sad at the sametime because I thought my marriage was going to work but he is abusive on top of many other things its sad because I literally can't do anything but pray for him and walk away because i can't change or fix him I can't take all of the pain and abuse I went through away he broke my trust and my HEART... People tell me you should be pissed of at him or you shouldn't care so much but when you really love someone you want to help them in the case I can't. This shit really hurts man.........
I'm sorry girl... I know exactly what you mean with an abusive relationship that you can't get away just because so forgiving and love too much. :(
It's so very hard.
I'm here for you!
Where are you in the Midwest??????? OP????
@momofdeuce thank you girl thats confirmation.. It is but ill get through it with faith
I will pray for you mama. That's a lot to deal with especially now trying to cope with that being pregnant and raising your children. Just dont give up ! This will be apart of your testimony .
@momofdeuce lesson well learned when i seen it was a girl i just got so emotional
@momofdeuce yea it is i tried to make my marriage work.. I kept going back over and over again.. Its really hitting me now because I know Im not going back its bitter sweet so much bad has happend there is no looking back... And on top of that I caught him at a hotel with a guy before I decided to call it quits. So he's verbally and physically abusive and DL.. Girllll pray for me please.
No problem 🤗 I've been in an abusive relationship (THANK God we weren't married or had kids) but it was hard to just walk away and hate him . I still dont hate him even though after walking away and going back he did it again. I count it as a lessoned learned.
Throughout our lives we will have plenty of lessons some more difficult than others.
Right, I think im such a forgiving person and I want to help people so bad. Yea I Am in OP to Lee's Summit