Hi I'm a single mom of a beautiful little girl, I'm having a hard time with her father trying to be so controlling and…

Hi I'm a single mom of a beautiful little girl, I'm having a hard time with her father trying to be so controlling and doing stuff that he never really talk to me about. Like he filled to change his visitation without talking to me first but he had his mom fill it out and they lied about some thing, but now he wants to have my daughter fly to Sacramento the first weekend of every month and have me fly to go get her but I don't think I should have to since it's his visit? He wants major holidays and want her the first and last week of summer an I don't think she's ready for that but he doesn't care. As of right now he see her once a month he drive from Sacramento to where I live which is about maybe a three to four hour drive but he brings his mom with him so she would want to stay longer because if it's just him she will want to come home early. Oh and to top it off he had the court papers mailed to me and he filled on June second and I got the papers on the 28th and mediation was the 27th. It's just getting hard to coparent with him and he's not the easiest person to talk to if it doesn't go his way he gets all mad. I am I wrong to think she shouldn't go or feel the way I do I'm do look freaking mad I could yell at him.