Yesterday Brandon made the comment "he's tired of caring...." now he doesn't say bye or I love you ..... I'm 6 weeks…
Yesterday Brandon made the comment "he's tired of caring...." now he doesn't say bye or I love you ..... I'm 6 weeks with our second child and at this point I feel so not wanted I don't want this baby to feel not wanted either..... FML 😩 why can't it ever just go smoothly, we planned for this baby, we bought a bigger home for this baby... and now It seems like I'm losing everything 😩😓
Denisa H·
Мама двоих (1 год, 2 года), ждёт третьего
I'm so sorry honey. Hope things turn around for you.
Saniyyah·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Give it time my hubby went thru the same to the point I really wanted a divorce he made it clear to me that the pregnancy ruined his life plan which still is impossible to achieve he wanted to be "rich" b4 having other kids. I think he just didn't want any more. I confided in his older daughter(in her early 20) how I felt I guess she talked to him. He really took a step back n apologized on how he treated me n from then on he accepted the pregnancy n as more time went on we gotten even stronger as a couple when she was born. This pregnancy he could not be too shock or disappointed bc he was the one who said he would pull out instead me having birth control. But still he was alittle stand offish til I told him it's a boy now he couldn't be nothing but over joyed. I think it take time for the news really set in fit men to process everything then you have to guess kinda make him realize he did this to you not just you. My hubby apologizes for getting me pregnant again so soon n I have to go thru the symptoms.
LeAnn Harris·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@saniyyahhasan, he really wants a boy, I honestly hope it's a boy for his sake , he was so excited to have another baby or try for another baby and now it's like it's a burden on him because it actually worked .....
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Sounds like he's depressed...
Saniyyah·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@leann.harris this pregnancy really no surprise to me n shouldn't be for him but he told me that the news wasn't what he expected. Later told me that he thought once or twice he didn't pull out on time. He knew the risk but still he said some hurtful things to me about getting pregnant then when I got upset he took it back. He really hated n hates my hormones when I get pregnant bc I can be so emotional either to hateful or too sensitive. He can't deal with it till week 20 when they level out. I think it took time for him to process everything bc men are slow in that department it takes time for them to get use to the fact they are responsible for another life
LeAnn Harris·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@damiensmommy1117, he's bipolar and has anger issues, it's hard to know if he has signs of depression or not anymore.
Saniyyah·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
Just give it time n patience either way girl our boy I'm sure he will have a great bond with the baby n you