Is it just me or do all men seem to get defensive and angry when u ask for help with some stuff cleaning in the house. Our kitchen table became a cluster disaster of any and everything and our toddler room was a disaster u had to make a pathway to walk. I clean all week I vacuum and do kitchen and bathrooms and dust and cook and grocery shop plus the ten million appts and places I gave to be lol. And I have 4 kids two being toddlers. Like I think I do a pretty good job with time I have but he got mad and said I doknt do enough I don't do it good enough. And I just feel disrespected and little hurt and angry. If I stopped doing all I do around here this place would be completely u liveable and I don't think I'm getting enough credit. And it became I need to get a job n Shit I have a job I work 8 hours a week that makes me 1600 a month I help and I take care of this zoo we live In lol. Sorry rant over
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wow i thought it was just me. same here, i know what u mean.. i say atleast they have a job that pays and they get a break!..lol these men wouldnt know what to do without us... theyd pry be . crying. in the. corner. i hate when they pull that u dont do enough or you need to get a job. so disrespectful..and they r quick to see when the house has a little cluter cuz we were busy that day out at dr. appoint. or errands,groceries, ect. but when the house is spotless they dont say shit! so i say clean it yourself! lol sry so long..if u read this far.:)
My husband does the same things and pull that I work shit or I gotta make money like I got it but shoot helping your wife clean and keep a the house clean makes me happy. It really the little things you do tat ake us happy
@forever.torrey right! I get he works all day during week I don't ask for much tho. And injust feel really unappreciated when he acts that way. I have a lazy 10 year old and a adhd /odd 6 year old and a 2 and 3 year old that are always into trouble. Me getting what I do done is a miracle some days ...me getting groce ry shopping done is a miracle lol.
Yes we definitely need help around the house. Taking care of babies AND yourself AND household shit is hard!
Lol @alexandriahill08 it's all good. Completely worth the read when u agree 100%