You know you're in a fucked up situation when you dread telling your SO (who makes the money) that…

Yeah my husband just rubbed it in my face earlier that he's the one that buys everything and pays the bills

That's a NECESSITY. Not a WANT. If he worried about cash he need to make a damn list of necessities vs wants. If he can't do that...well...I let you figure that out....☡

@danielswifey, yeah he likes to shove it in my face that I don't work right now. Even though he doesn't do anything he's supposed to with his money. My phone got turned off even though the bill was only $30. He waits till there's like 2 diapers left to get diapers, and 9/10 times he uses his mother's money that he takes from her to buy the diapers. We haven't bought any damn thing for this baby. Except what few things I was able to buy for the few weeks I worked after knowing I was pregnant.

@lovelily, he wastes his money on so many things for himself and I don't even know what it goes to. He just runs out of money and i have to get his mom to buy diapers and like now, my phone is turned off. I'd be screwed if I had to take our daughter to the hospital and couldn't call him to tell him or his mom or anything.

@brianne I think you know where his priorities lay and it ain't good.

A man should put his child before ALL ELSE. Sacrifices must be made. I'd starve before my child went without anything.

@brianne you need to tell him to grow up

@danielswifey, I've done everything but get physically violent with him. ):

@lovelily, oh I know. I've already threatened to leave and nothing has changed. So. Guess I'm leaving ):

Girl ill be prayomg for you

@julie1415, I'm not the least bit religious but I definitely need it. 😩