Question for mamas with multiple kids, close in age...what do you say to people who comment on how…

I tell people I wanted to have them close together so that they would all grow up as best friends. Also because I grew up an only child and always wanted brothers and sisters. So having a big family is important to me. Also why wait? I don't want to be 30 and still having kids sorry lol

That's a little weird, my big brother and sister are a year apart he's 27 and she's 26 and Im fixing to be 21 in November and my little brother is about to he 17 also in November so we were all pretty close in age but I don't think anyone has ever said anything to my mom about us being close in age but I do know that they have judged my mom for having kids at 17, people to this day still judge her when they run into me or my siblings or my mom at the store but I personally ignore them

I don't. I ignore them. If I were to say something it would probably be something rude and smart ass anyway.

@ilovemychildren @amberjacq @_alimarii @tejuhmm25 @sixplus1 @sixplus1 thanks ladies! I'm just gonna have to be prepared next time cause it was so awkward! Lol

I don't assume someone is trying to be mean, just think she was trying to be funny (whether it is or isn't..) And always be nice. Always choose kindness 😊 I'd just say "yup, you know it... Have a nice day!" That's a polite way of ending the conversation also 😉👍 and heck yeah to close in age, we are doing the same 😘

@zachattackmomma thank you! And I yeah I don't think I can be rude lol

@_alimarii thank you hun! 😊

I would just say to the person " as long is not your man who's putting thoses babies here, mind your business".

@ty_no_de_love 😂😂😂

I'm telling you they love to be on people's business lmaoo. so sorry but the same way she couldn't shut her mouth, i would not shut mine 😂😂😂

@ty_no_de_love lol I'm shy I wish I was more outspoken 😏😂

@skyy12221 lol i understand. I really hope i will never be in that type of situation, because my mouth is some 🔥 😂😂

@ty_no_de_love you gonna hurt somebody's feelings leaving them looking stupid 😂😂😂😂

@skyy12221 girl i Really don't care 😂😂😂😂 they should think before talk😂😂😂😂😂

@ty_no_de_love 😂😂😂 true not everything that comes out your mouth the way you imagine

I'm having my 4th child and I had to go off on some guy that use to have a crush on me bcuz he said something smart about me having 3 already and he instantly turned it around and said... I wanted to be the one to give you your little girl😒😒😒like boy bye.... I usually ignore cuz someone always has something to say but he got me so irritated with his comment

@shataranaj smh wow lol

Smile and say yes we are and enjoying every minute of it. Own it!

@tami02_ril thank you! 😊😘