@_alimarii. Lol I just noticed we both live in kansas

@_alimarii yes girl lol grow up and be a women you've got kids now.. Seriously your the one causing this

@_alimarii i promise you just took the words out of my mouth my mom is the same she calls my kids names me too.. She even tries to turn me and my siblings against eachother. And she is also a reason for my severe depression.. She doesn't get it ..to her im just making up excuses

@_alimarii i know its sucks especially when you feel like your in the middle i just hate drama and i hate to be be littled

@momofdeuce i agree with you i think its time to do that im tired of the extra stress

@ninaberrygood15 I mostly ignore everything my mother says but if I ever tell my mom that Im pregnant and she says one thing negative then I will explode on her but I do understand why some people continue to take the crap from their parents, it's because we love them and we were raised to respect them but our parents just never done the same for us so they have no boundaries or respect towards us so we just take their crap repeatedly but until one day we finally get enough of the abuse

@momofdeuce Yes what she said great advice! Distance yourself, I have distanced myself from my mother ever since I got married and I couldn't be happier when I am away from her but when Im around her I can't stand it because she always has something to say but it just gives me more reasons to stay away from her

My question is why do you guys put up with it?

That sucks that she downgrades you that way. I would simply distant myself from her . My mother and I have a somewm what complicated relationship. So we do our best to just keep things to a minimum. She very judgmental and have told my siblings abd myself that she doesnt like her Kids. I love her but I know that we can't be around each other for too long smh

My mom is the same way but somewhat different the only difference between our moms is that my mom is an alcoholic/pill head and she doesn't compare me to my siblings because they are pretty much doing the same thing I am just living their lives, my big brother has 2 jobs and is looking for a woman to settle down with and my big sister got married last year and I got married in 2015 and I am pregnant with my rainbow baby and my little brother just sits on video games all the time.. But my mom does the same thing she has zero respect for my marriage she and my step dad both told me that I was going to end up divorced with a kid 😒 who says that to their kid who just got married?? And on my wedding day my step dad got into an argument with my husband and I am sure my mom will try to make me feel like a bad mother as well... If I ever decide to tell her that Im pregnant... She has told me in the past when I was a teen taking care and raising my aunts 3 kids that I will be a bad mother just because my baby cousin woke up before I did and I was literally 15 years old trying to raise 2 boys and a girl and I was tired the night before from waking up early for school and then staying up til 4 in the morning trying to get my aunts screaming baby to sleep with no help but my mom is wrong, I will be a better mother then she ever was, and your mother is wrong too you're a good mom don't let her bring you down to her level, she's just bitter and jealous and wants to makes you that way too trust me my mother is the same way