Partly venting in this post: My boyfriend Ryan isn't my daughters biological father. Contrary to…

Partly venting in this post: My boyfriend Ryan isn't my daughters biological father. Contrary to what some people including my family says; Ryan is her dad, just because they don't share DNA doesn't mean anything. No what happens between us our daughter will always know Ryan as her dad.

Yes, I chose to be with her bio father at the time and I chose to sleep with him;(partly out of spite toward my family, partly out stupidity, partly out of me being too ignorant to really see) And as some of the moms on here have said "you shouldn't have sex with someone just because they are good in bed" and those moms are right, even though they could have approach that statement a little more politely.

At about 6weeks her bio father started trying to abuse me, he started to control every aspect of my life (I couldn't leave the place we shared unless he went too, couldn't go to the bathroom with the door closed, couldn't see my family or friends), he started abusing me (degrading me; calling me a wh*** and a sl** and telling me to kill myself, trying to lay his hands on me, he tried to cause me to miscarry) I ended things with him when I was 9weeks pregnant, later found out he was schizophrenic.

I met my boyfriend Ryan when I was about 4months pregnant. was at every appointment, he was the only one I wanted and had in my room during my labor and delivery, he has been to almost every Dr appointment she's had. He's paid for over half the stuff that she has wanted or needed since he and I got together, he's shown her and I both so much love and support than I ever expected.