Helping someone is doing something out of the kindness of your heart and expecting nothing in return…

Helping someone is doing something out of the kindness of your heart and expecting nothing in return but instead you chose to surprise me with owing you $1,000+ (which I absolutely can NOT afford) because you decided you were just going to pay for the issues my car (using two of your credit cards) was having without even asking me about it first, if you truly wanted to help you wouldn't of put me in debt to you without my knowledge nor permission, instead you should have spoken to me about things first not just decide for me and throw it in my face that I owe you that much money.