Just found out my oldest sister had another baby 3 months ago on March 26th. She now has 5 girls and…

No offense to you but that was totally wrong, no matter what her situation is that's still her choice and her decision, all kids are blessings no matter how many she has. I wouldn't down her I would try and be their for her!

@antwonika, if you have dealt with a drug addict sister your entire life you would understand. She doesn't take care of her kids. She spends all her money on a guy that beats her and drugs. Me and my other sister are left to raise her kids. When my other sister already has five kids and I have my own daughter. So when I'm stuck paying for school supplies, clothing, her rent, her water bill, food for those kids, and all my bills and things for my daughter. Yes I get pissed off. The entire family gets upset with her for throwing her life down the drain and putting those kids through hell. And for continuing to have kids she can't afford. A child is meant to be loved and they deserve to have a mom that takes care of them. Not living from house to house not knowing where the next meal is going to come from. Having to come to their aunts for food and clothing. I've had her oldest daughter cry in my arms begging me not to make her go back to her mother, begging me to call CPS because she would rather be in the system then be with her own mother. Telling me she just wants to be a 12 year old kid worrying about homework and friends then raising her siblings. So yes I'm pissed and I'm disappointed in her.

I honestly don't blame you for being mad. If you can't afford to take care of a baby and provide for it, you don't need to have one! I have dealt with people like that and the ones hurting are the kids.

@babynessa, I totally understand where you are coming from. My mother was in that same situation and she has 7 kids, it's a lot that me and my siblings went through but my family stepped up and took us away from her because she was mentally unstable and got her help, and now she's doing way better than before. But if you feel the kids are being treated that way you and your family should take the kids and take her somewhere to get help. Everybody goes through things tbh & she's probably in a bad mental state, she needs some guidance and some help and love, that's your sister and you guys should try and help her as much as she can

@antwonika, we have tried everything. We pray non stop for her and those kids. We have taken her and her kids in. We have put her in a drug program. We have called CPS on her. We have taken her kids from her so she can get back on her feet. She gets back on her feet then she messes up and goes back to her old ways. My great grandmother is giving her her house and told her that she can have the house if she continues to do good. But if she brings her baby daddy to the house or destroys the house or does drugs again she's getting kicked out. We have no idea what else to do for her. Me and my other sister have told her if she messes up again we will take her kids from her permanently and we will not give them back to her. I doubt she will ever get better. She's literally a lost cause. We have given her cars, houses, pretty much everything and she screws up every time.

@babynessa, did you guys ever had a heart to heart conversation with her before?

@antwonika, yup. Were we all sat down my aunt drove three hours to sit down and talk to her. Her oldest daughter was there. And we basically all cried and poured our hearts out. Worked for about a month before was homeless again asking me for money.

@babynessa wow smh. I don't even know what to say tbh