I'm sorry but callin my son name ina forceful tone will not make him stop crying and having a tantrum or understand wats…

I'm sorry but callin my son name ina forceful tone will not make him stop crying and having a tantrum or understand wats going on..it's only gon make him cry more...don't come tryin to take him from me or anything shut up and go away ! That don't help ! He don't understand and still trying to figure out to control his emotions!!! The terrible twos phase is so stressful annoying ! Even the grandparents acting like they don't know how to handle it and they had two kids themselves...I stay feeling like I'm the only one who know how to do shit right when it comes to knowing shit about babies and their developmental ways !!